LiFe jUst lIKe a bOx Of cHOcoLAtE!! ^_^

Well..just bits n pieces of my life!!

Monday, December 20, 2004

Romantic??

From the very beginning, the girl's family objected strongly on her dating this guy.
Saying that it has got to do with family background,& that the girl will have to suffer for the rest of her life if she were to be with him.
Due to the family's pressure, the couple quarreled very often.
Though the girl loved the guy deeply, but she always asked him: "How deep is your love for me?"
As the guy is not very good with his words, this often caused the girl to be very upset.
With that & the family's pressure, the girl often vent her anger on him.
As for him, he only endured it in silence.

After a couple of years, the guy finally graduated & decided to further his studies overseas. Before leaving, he proposed to the girl: "I'm not very good with words. But all I know is that I love you. If you allow me, I will take care of you for the rest of my life. As for your family, I'll try my best to talk them round. Will you marry me?"The girl agreed, & with the guy's determination, the family finally gave in & agreed to let them get married. So before he left, they got engaged.

The girl went out to the working society, whereas the guy was overseas, continuing his studies. They sent their love through emails & phone calls. Though it was hard, but both never thought of giving up.One day, while the girl was on her way to work, she was knocked down by a car that lost control. When she woke up, she saw her parents beside her bed. She realised that she was badly injured. Seeing her mum crying, she wanted to comfort her. But she realized that all that could come out of her mouth was just a sigh. She had lost her voice......The doctors said that the impact on her brain had caused her to lose her voice. Listening to her parents' comfort, but with nothing coming out from her, she broke down.During the stay in hospital, besides the silent cry,.....it was still just silent cries that accompanied her.

Upon reaching home, everything seemed to be the same. Except for the ringing tone of the phone. Which pierced into her heart everytime it rang. She did not wish to let the guy know. & not wanting to be a burden to him, she wrote a letter to him saying that she did not wish to wait any longer.With that, she sent the ring back to him. In return, the guy sent millions & millions of replies, and countless phonecalls,.. all the girl could do, besides crying, was just crying....

Her parents decided to move away, hoping that she could eventually forget everything & be happy.With a new environment, the girl learnt sign language & started a new life. Telling herself everyday that she must forget the guy.

One day, her friend came to tell her that he had come back. She asked her friend not to let him know what happened to her. Since then, there wasn't anymore news of him.

A year has passed & her friend came with an envelope, containing an invitation card for the guy's wedding. The girl was shattered. When she opened the letter, she saw her name on it instead.

When she was about to ask her friend what's going on, she saw the guy standing in front of her. He used sign language to tell her "I've spent a year to learn sign language. Just to let you know that I've not forgotten our promise. Let me have the chance to be your voice. I Love You. With that, he slipped the ring back into her finger. The girl finally smiled.

Wednesday, December 15, 2004

for guys!!! being like this 4 ur gf??

When a guy reali falls in love and becomes faithful to his beloved, his change in his character will really shock everyone around him..
His egoist heart will uncompromisingly softens when he willingly gives his heart to the lady he falls in love with..
Furthermore, he'll be willing to sacrifice everything and do anything for his loved one..
No matter how egoist he may be, tears will fall from his cheeks wen his heart's broken..
It's not easy to see guys who would truly cry for their loved ones...

~20 signs to recognise the strong love a guy holds for his beloved..

1. He willingly do anything n everything for his beloved.. with sincerity not coercion
2. He constantly wants to humour his beloved and tends to be more talkative
3. He tends to advise his beloved more as he truly loves her and wants her to be a better person
4. He tries to restrict her freedom due to his overwhelming jealousy
5. He constantly fears losing his beloved
6. He always monitors his beloved's movements as he feels insecure
7. He hates the idea of other guys being close to his beloved
8. He becomes jealous and sensitive when his beloved pays less attention to him
9. He becomes the most hardworking person n help his beloved to do anything n everything
10. He becomes restless wen his beloved's away for too long
11. He cares for his beloved more than he does himself
12. He constantly asks if his beloved loves him as he feels his love is greater than his beloved's
13. He would not be bothered wif other gals who dun hold any importance to him
14. He will try to spend a lot of time wif his beloved even though he noes he'll end up waitin for his beloved
15. He praises his beloved in front of others
16. If his beloved leaves him, he cant trust any other gal n wishes for his beloved to come back to him
17. When there is a third party, he loses his mind and is willing to do anything to fight fer his beloved
18. He makes sure he ensures her safety at all times
19. He is like a small kid who fights for constant attention from his beloved
20. He treats his beloved as his most trusted one and willing to sacrifice all of his wealth and even his life for her..
21. He keeps asking his belove wheather she lurfe him not?~It's not easy to find guys who would shed their tears jus for gals.. ~ Cherish

Sunday, December 05, 2004

fall into love..

1. When u are busy, but u still insist to on ur cell phone waiting him to call..u are in love already
2. If u are more prefer to ramble with him, then u already fall onto him 3. When u are with him, u pretend not to notice him, however, when he disappear frm ur line of vision, u anxiously looking for him, then ....u already fall in love onto him
4. When he falled sick, u will worry! then this has proved that love
5. When girls aproach near to him, and u are not feeling good, then........ blah blah
6. When he just a little closer to u, and ur heart beat rapidly....then....... (what else?)
7. When u see him smile cheerfuly, and u ueself will follow as well..u already fall onto him without urself knowing that
8. When u r reading this article, and ur heart thinking of that person...then u are confirmly fall in love onto him.

Friday, December 03, 2004

10 signs that you r in love...

10. Time is an eternity when you're withoutthem
9. Time stops when you're with them
8. The thought of them makes you shiver
7. The sound of them makes you smile
6. When seeing them, you can't see anythingelse
5. You start to listen to sappy love songs
4. You actually enjoy sappy love songs
3. The smell of them makes you seefireworks
2. You find yourself smiling constantly
1. You'd do anything, even die, for them

Wednesday, December 01, 2004

Tips!! ^_^

Guys should ALWAYS send the girl home...

Guys should NEVER make a Girl WAIT...

Guys should NEVER make empty promises.. The girl will NEVER forget that u NEVER keep ur promise....

Guys should be MORE sensitive to a girl's feelings..

Guys should NEVER neglect their GF just becoz of their buddies..

Guys should ALWAYS BE THERE for their GF..

Guys should NEVER LIE.. coz the Girls r SMART these days..

Guys should ALWAYS be the BEST in everything...So that the Girl can learn from u.. Yet DUN be TOO Arrogant...

Guys should be MORE Patient and Understanding when its the "time of the MOnth" for the Girls.. They tend to haf MOOD SwIngs...

Guys should learn how to SHOW more AFFECTION to their Love ones..

Guys should ALWAYS take the FIRST STep..

Guys should MAKE DECISIONS... Not say " dunno lar.. or anything larrr.." Girls like guys who can make decisions.. whether is where to eat or go or do.. Bleahz~~

Guys should Try to send their GF home from sch or work if they haf the time despite the distance..

Guys should learn NOT to be toooo Messy... in the things they do..

Guys should learn to call and sms their GF ani time of the day/nite.. Basically give their GF the sense of SECURITY.. tat wat girls want from most of their BF...

Guys should try to let their GF know where and wat their doing all the time.. SO should their Girl..

Guys should NEVER Flirt around too Much..Everyone would know that ya a JErk.. Girls can gossip quite alot..

Guys should learn to be more Passionate..

Guys should be SMART, Quickwilled and STRONGWILLED..

Real Guys DO CRY.. they haf feelings too.. But dun CRY to Often...Coz its NOT very manly.. Besides ya be known as a WIMP..

Guys should KNOW their GF likes and dislikes..

Guys should know their GF contact NumberSSss by Heart...

Guys should never give excuses like `
- SOrry I fell asleep..
- Sorry I was caught in a jam..
- Sorry my hp went Low..
- Opps.. I didn't know that..
- Oh i forgot...

Guys should Never use phrases like
- ya not angry r u? (when its OBVIOUSLY she is..)
- I dun like it.. ( when u haven't even try )
- I dun like them ( when u haven't even met them )

Guys should always TRY new things and learn to adapt..

Guys should ALWAYS make a good impression on the Girl's Parents..

Guys should know how to make their GF happy..

Guys should be DARING to meet ani of their GF's friends, relatives.. blah blah...

Guys should never make their GF to beg for them to do this or that..

Guy should Learn to behave themselves at times..

Guys should be Fun, Talkative, Outgoing.. etc..

Guys should Never force their GF to do anithing they dun want..

Guys should always FEEL like a girl when guys r wif their GF.. Girls like guys who can be their bestfriend too.. Understanding.. etc..

Guys should always talk to their GF about their made-decisions.. and ask how to feel about it..

Guys should NEVER always expect a GIRL to tell them WAT THEY DID WRONG.. when EVERYTHING was WRONG...

Guys should NEVER be Ignorant!

Guys Should never tell the truth when gals say its ok to tell them the whole truth n nothing but the truth..cos gals never MEANT wat they say..n boy..sure they REMEMBER for a long long time!!! :P